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Why plus sized single women may never find love

Why plus sized single women may never find love? Are you curious to find out? Then read on! We live in a society where being “slim”, “slim-thick”, is glamourized unnecessarily. People are praised for going under the knife and turning out perfect and on every other wedding day, you see a slim woman being picked up as the “prize”, Little wonder plus sized single women are congratulated for going under the knife to get that “dream body”.

Here are some reasons why plus sized single women may not find love:

Their self esteem is not as big as they are:

Plus sized women have been conditioned to not feel good about themselves right from when they were kids in school. They have been bullied by their age mates, called “fatty”, “humpty-dumpty”, and other mean names and even as grown women, they are constantly being made to feel like they are not enough. As a result of this, they lack the self confidence needed for a successful dating life is not available to them. Nobody wants to stay with someone that constantly puts themselves down. It is not so much about the weight than about your self esteem.

They self sabotage themselves:

Due to the fact that they have their self esteem and self confidence on the low, they talk themselves out of the love they deserve. You hear statements as, “I do not think that he is my type”, “He won’t want someone like me”, or the common one, “I am not really his type”. These statements self sabotage their chances at their desired love life.

They stop to care about themselves

Due to the fact that they receive less “hype” from social media and under glamorizations, they begin to care less about their appearance, they eat as a source of comfort or a s a coping mechanism. This is akin to digging a hole when in a pit and further putting yourself in a hole. Maintaining a healthy weight says a lot about your discipline. Having flesh on is good, in fact, it is very good as it shows you take your feeding seriously, but tethering on the edge of obesity reflects on your eating habits.

NOTE: My plus sized queens should understand that nobody can make you feel bad about yourself without your permission. Do not allow society to set the bar low for you. Take your confidence back, take back charge of your life and begin to live the life you have always imagined.

More than anything else, self confidence will be the best outfit and asset you will ever have, embody it! Check out how to spot a narcissist

Also check out why you were dumped

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