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10 reasons he dumped you? That might seem too blunt but here, we are the harbingers of truth and there is no need for sugarcoating

Let’s be honest, we have gotten to that point and have likely experienced this: You were getting along so well with each other and you may have even had the “butterfly in the stomach” with him only for things to go downhill a few weeks later. Suddenly, you are no longer “feeling” him, he seems really distant and all the good and gentlemanly things he was doing in the beginning all goes down the drain. He no longer wants to spend as much time with you as he used to.

Here, we have outline the ten most likely reasons he left. Now in this context, we are talking about a perfect gentleman; respectable and well mannered and not just a random drunk or loser.

1. YOU WERE TOO AVAILABLE:

Now this isn’t about playing games. Nope. You were probably in his face all day and he felt really suffocated by it. Statistics has shown that the more available you are to your partner, the more “used” to you they get. Familiarity really does breed contempt, or in this case, familiarity breeds dumping! Give him space, have a life too. It sounds cliché but please, go get a life, a hobby, an extra course and keep yourself busy.

2. HE DIDN’T WANT YOU ENOUGH:

Truth is, no matter how much we try to force ourselves on someone, we cannot control what they do. He may have liked you but then he didn’t like you enough. Now wait, there isn’t anything wrong with you. It was just what it was! Move on queen, you deserve better.

3. HE WAS ONLY THRILLED BY THE CHASE:

You may have heard it that men love to chase, It sounds cliché but there is a reason why it is cliché: because it is true. This boils down to the fact that he was not really that interested in you, he just loved the chase.

4. HE GOT A SIDE PIECE:

Yes, I’m sorry but this one had to be put in here. Chances are that he actually got someone and before you start another round of beating yourself up, let me make this clear: It wasn’t necessarily because the other person was better than you! No, it is just what it is. There is no time for self pity. Move on

this is why he dumped you
This is why he dumped you

5. YOU WERE BORING:

I know this may sound too harsh but really, are you interesting? And I mean, are you really interesting? Do you have something to actually talk about? Are you experienced or do you talk about the Kardashians all day long? Get a life sis, sorry.

6. HE WAS JUST PRETENDING:

Yup, he probably was. He probably fell in love with the idea of dating you but did not fall in love with you. You know that, “I just want to see where this goes”. (Rolls eyes). Down the river bro, that’s where it goes. Tssk! Next please

7. YOU ARE TOO GOOD FOR HIM:

Yeah, this is actually a reason contrary to what you think. You are one gorgeous, beautiful, amazing lady and he was just too intimidated. Did you watch that movie? Where he said, “Margaret, I love you (clout, he was lying). But I think you can do better than me. If he has ever told you this, please run, you really are too good for him.

8. YOU TWO WEREN’T COMPATIBLE:

This is a big one. I’m sure you do not just want just anyone to spend the rest of your life with. You deserve someone that actually gets you! Chemistry is not enough. Do your value, religion and beliefs align? Does he want 4 children while you want just one? Sure there can be some compromise but some things are standards that should not be compromised.

9. YOU GAVE IT UP EASILY:

It is not a sign of liberation to give it up to anyone, anywhere, anyhow. Matter of fact, it is a sign of bondage because it shows you are controlled by lust. Truth is, 90 percent of any man that asks you out on a date will hit it the first day if given the opportunity. Make him earn it, has he worked for it? has he put a ring on it?

10. HE JUST AINT SH*T:

I know. I agree with you. He isn’t really as high value as he claimed to be. He is pathetic and that break is a blessing in disguise!

Heartbreaks are not the end all, be all. Pick yourself up because something better awaits you. This may be a time to be productive instead of trolling him on social media. Check out these cool things to do instead here

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